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A Man
Must Choose the Golden Mean
by Maimonides (Moses Ben
Maimon)
Men have various dispositions, which are
different from, and diametrically opposed to, one
another. There is one man who is irascible, and is
continually angry; while there is another who is of
a calm disposition and does not get angry at all;
and even if he gets angry, his wrath is mild, and
this only happens once in several years. There is
one man who is exceedingly haughty, while there is
another who is exceedingly meek. There is one man
who is voluptuous, whose soul can never be
satisfied with indulging in pleasures; while there
is another whose heart is so pure, that he desires
not even the bare necessities which the body
requires. There is one man who is exceedingly
avaricious, whose soul cannot be satisfied with all
the riches of the world, as it is written: 'He that
loveth silver shall not be satisfied with silver;'
while there is another who is so unambitious, that
he is content with a small thing which is hardly
sufficient for him, and does not strive to obtain
all that he needs. There is one man who emaciates
himself by starvation, and saves all his money, and
is very grieved when he has to spend a Perutah for
his food; while there is another who wilfully
squanders all his possessions. And in the same
manner are all other dispositions, as for instance,
one man is hilarious, while another is melancholy;
one is niggardly, while another is generous; one is
cruel, while another is merciful; one is
faint-hearted, while another is courageous, and so
forth.
Between two contrary dispositions which are at
the two extremes there are intermediate
dispositions which are likewise different from one
another. There are some dispositions which are
inherent in a man from his very birth, in
accordance with the nature of his body; while there
are others to which a man's nature is so
predisposed, that they are readily adopted by him
sooner than any other; and there are still others
which are not inherent in a man from his very
birth, but are acquired by him through imitating
other men, or are adopted by him of his own accord
because of an idea that occurred to him, or
because, having heard that this disposition was
good for him and worthy of being cultivated, he
regulated his conduct accordingly, until it has
become fixed in his heart.
The two diametrically opposed extremes of all
dispositions are not the good way, and it behooves
no man to walk therein, nor to adopt them. If a man
finds that his nature inclines toward one of them,
or is predisposed to adopt it, or that he has
already acquired it, and regulated his conduct
accordingly, he should return to that which is
good, and walk in the way of the good ones, which
is the right way.
The right way is the intermediate quality of
every disposition of man, and that is the
disposition which is equidistant from both
extremes, being neither nearer to the one nor to
the other. The ancient sages have therefore
commanded that a man should always put, arrange,
and direct his dispositions in the middle course,
so that he may be sound in his body. In what
manner? He should not be irascible, easily provoked
to anger, nor as a dead man that is insensible, but
should take the middle course: he should only get
angry on account of an important matter, when it
behooves to show anger in order that a similar
offense should not be again committed. Similarly, a
man should only desire those things which are
necessary and indispensable for his body, as it is
written: The righteous eateth to the satisfying of
his desire.' In like manner, he should not exert
himself in his business more than to obtain the
necessities of life, as it is written: 'A little is
good for the righteous.' He should not be too
niggardly, nor squander his money, but should give
charity according to his means, and in a fitting
manner lend to him who is in need. He should not be
hilarious and mirthful, nor gloomy and melancholy,
but always happy and contented and of cheerful
countenance. In the same manner should all his
dispositions be. This way is the way of the wise;
every man whose dispositions are intermediate, that
is to say, in the middle course, is called
wise.
A man who is very strict with himself, and
removes himself from the middle course slightly
toward one side or another, is called pious. In
what manner? He who removes himself from
haughtiness toward the other extreme, and is very
humble, is called pious; and this is the quality of
piety. If, however, he moves only as far as the
middle, and is modest, he is called wise; and this
is the quality of wisdom. In the same manner are
all other dispositions. The pious men of ancient
times used to turn their dispositions from the
middle course toward the extremes; some
dispositions were made to incline toward the one
extreme, while others toward the other extreme;
this is beyond the line required by the law. We,
however, are commanded to walk in middle courses,
which are the good and upright ways, as it is
written: 'And thou shalt walk in His ways.' In
interpreting this commandment, the sages say: 'As
He is called gracious, so shalt thou Is be
gracious; as He is called merciful, so shalt thou
be merciful; as He is called holy, so shalt thou be
holy." And for this reason did the prophets call
God by all these attributes: slow to anger,
abundant in lovingkindness, righteous, upright,
perfect, mighty, strong, and so forth, in order to
let us know that these are good and upright ways,
according to which a man is obliged to regulate his
conduct, so that he may be like unto Him, as far as
lies in his power.
In what manner should a man accustom himself to
these dispositions, so that they should become part
of his nature? He should do once, and twice, and
three times the deeds which he is to do according
to the intermediate dispositions, and should always
keep on repeating them until they have become so
easy for him that he can do them without the
slightest effort; the dispositions will then become
fixed in his soul. Because the Creator is called by
these names, they are according to the middle
course wherein we are obliged to walk, and this way
is called the way of God; it is the one which
Abraham taught his children, as it is written: 'For
I have known him, to the end that he may command. .
. .' And he who walks in this way brings welfare
and blessing to himself, as it is written: 'To the
end that the Lord may bring upon Abraham that which
He hath spoken of Him.'
Excerpted from Code, Hilkot
De'ot, by Maimonides (Post-Biblical Hebrew
Literature)
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