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Helping
Your Adult Children
by Gary North, Ph.D.
Introduction
In this report, you will be given a 10-minute
exercise to identify yourself as either a sheep or
a shepherd.
If you are a sheep, you will eventually be
sheared -- or worse. I suggest that you become a
shepherd. Soon.
Sheep dearly want to believe that they are
shepherds. But when given an opportunity to find
out for sure, a sheep always decides to avoid the
test. Self-delusion seems preferable. Self-delusion
coupled with complete trust in others to care for
them are marks of sheep.
Can you hear the power shears? On which end of
the shears are you: handle or blades? I will show
you how to find out.
Do you really want to find out? I hope so.
If you discover today that you don't really want
to find out, think of a hundred million other
American voters who have not read anything like
this report, and who don't see what is coming. They
expect others to take care of them -- namely, you.
Get your wallet ready.
But first. . . .
Inescapable Expenses
In every society, families in their most
productive years bear the greatest economic burden,
which is as it should be. They are raising
children, yet they are also caring for their aged
parents.
This fact is true in the modern industrial
world, but it is concealed because of the
tax-funded welfare system.
Instead of educating our own children, we pay
local property taxes to have the government educate
then, using government-approved textbooks, hiring
government-certified teachers, and running things
according to U.S. government guidelines. Voters
call this system "free education."
A mother can educate all of her children, K-12,
with a $200 self-taught curriculum, paid once. This
fact does not occur to most parents.
www.robinsoncurriculum.com
Then there is the burden of supporting aged
parents. This is paid for by employed taxpayers.
The tax is not called a tax in the United States.
It is called the FICA contribution. It is always
rising. Add to this Medicare taxes.
There is no escape from the economic burden of
supporting children and parents. The illusion that
the government can reduce this burden is one of the
grand illusions fostered by government in order to
gain control over the educational system.
In the case of the Netherlands, the government's
control over old age medical care is used to
persuade voters to accept euthanasia of old people.
It's a tax-reduction measure that is sugar coated
as a "quality of life" measure. It is only a matter
of time before something similar comes to the
United States. What the government did not allow
Dr. Kevorkian to do as an independent agent, it
will allow someday -- and then require -- when the
Federal government finds that Medicare's escalating
red ink is hampering the government's expansion
into other areas of our lives.
In short, you will be under the gun -- literally
-- when you are no longer inside the heavily taxed
class of citizens known as "employees."
I realize that hardly any American believes
this. When Americans even know about the
Netherlands' medical procedure, they dismiss it as
a deviation of the Dutch. I was in the Netherlands
on a visit in the summer of 1985 when the
government first began to authorize "mercy"
killings. I could see what is coming to every
red-ink-burdened Western nation whose voters do not
organize early to head this off.
Will voters organize in time? Probably not.
There seems to be no imminent threat. Only when a
fiscal crisis threatens the solvency of the Federal
government will such policies be imposed. These
policies will be preceded by rationing. Dying
individuals will find that there are no emergency
care beds available. Rationing will be imposed, and
the rationers will assume -- correctly -- that some
old people will die before they get access to a
hospital bed.
Do not rely on the tender mercies of the State.
Whenever you hear the words "government mercy,"
think "mercy killings." Think "Dutch treat."
A Wallet-to-Wallet Talk
Americans speak of heart-to-heart talks. That
sounds great. But they resist wallet-to-wallet
talks with their children. The idea that parents
and children should sit down and discuss family
money and family responsibility is abhorrent to
Americans. We just don't do it.
The problem with this cultural trait is that
responsibility is deferred. In most cases, it is
transferred, mainly to the government. Children
don't plan on taking care of their aged parents.
They assume that the government will take care of
the big expenses, leaving any extra parental assets
for the children after the funeral.
Parents do much the same. They figure out that
they will have the State care for them in comfort,
and then their children will receive anything that
is left over.
There is a looming problem with this strategy.
The big medical expenses occur in the final six
months of a person's life. This fact is going to
bankrupt Medicare. As the number of oldsters grows,
the government will have to take measures to stop
the fiscal hemorrhaging. It will do so. One way or
another, the State will pull the plug.
This is why parents and children need to sit
down and talk while everyone is still solvent.
There had better be agreement on who will pay what
before the plug gets pulled.
This will not be done. Even people who read this
report and who suspect what is coming will not
bring themselves to do it. The cultural barriers
are just too strong.
So, parents must take independent steps to plan
for their own retirement and death, structuring
things so that there are no horrible surprises for
their heirs.
The best way to take defensive steps is to hand
over parts of the inheritance early, and see if the
children can make the money grow. Some children
will be better at this than others. These are the
ones who should be given the larger share of
whatever remains after the death of the second
parent. The children should be informed in advance
of the general policy. With every check should come
strings, like the string on a carrot.
How Many Carrots, and How Large?
Before you can rationally answer this, you must
know what your retirement will be like if there are
no unpleasant surprises along the way.
This is the "sheep or shepherd" exercise. Do you
really want to know which one you are?
You should find this exercise familiar. You will
think, "Wait a minute. He wrote about this a month
ago." I did, indeed. Did you do what I recommended?
If so, you can skip the rest of this report.
This probably is under 5% of my readers.
Don't think of this as nagging. Think of it as a
helpful reminder.
I have located a financial calculator that is
easier to use than the one I recommended
before.
http://shurl.org/retirecalc
I will now take you through this (painful)
exercise with this calculator. It should take no
longer than 10 minutes.
Do this exercise by yourself. Then, when you
understand how this calculator works, and you know
the results, sit down with your spouse and go
through the exercise again. Another person is more
likely to believe the results by personally seeing
the entire procedure on-screen.
First, enter the dollar amount of your existing
retirement portfolio's value: "Starting
Balance."
Second, enter your "Current age."
Third, estimate the rate of return that you
honestly think you will earn, minus the expected
rate of price inflation. (I use the Median CPI,
which is published by the Federal Reserve Bank of
Cleveland. This figure rarely goes below 2.5% per
year. http://shurl.org/mediancpidata I recommend
3%.) If the rate of return so far has been 6% per
annum, enter 3 (6 minus 3) here: "Rate of return
before retirement."
It is important that you find out what the
portfolio's rate of return has been since 2000.
This figure is likely to be closer to the rate of
return over the next two decades. The rate of
return for stocks from 1982 to 2000 was abnormally
high.
Understand also that if long-term interest rates
rise because of inflation, the market value of your
bonds will fall. The market value of bonds moves
inversely to the movement of the prevailing
interest rate for bonds of any maturity date.
How much money do you expect to save in your
pension fund each year? Think of an average yearly
figure. This will be the combined contribution of
your employer and you. Fourth, enter this figure
here: "Annual contributions."
Fifth, enter your expected "Age of
retirement."
Sixth, enter your expected "Rate of return
during retirement."
Seventh, enter your estimated "Retirement tax
rate."
You can now calculate your annual after-tax
retirement income generated by your present
retirement savings program.
Add to this Social Security income. Contact the
local branch of Social Security and find out what
your monthly retirement income will be if your
salary doesn't change. (Warning: Don't count on the
system's survival after 2017.)
It's time to contact your local Social Security
office to find out. This may take longer than 10
minutes.
You must pay for your other expenses. Your
retirement after-tax portfolio income plus Social
Security payments had better generate at least half
of whatever salary you are making per year today
after taxes. This is a no-frills retirement.
Remember also that the purchasing power of your
income will almost inevitably depreciate, month by
month (inflation). You hope that Social Security
will make up the difference. What if it doesn't?
You must not reduce your capital by paying for
unexpected expenses. If you do, you will steadily
impoverish yourself.
What did the calculator tell you about your
future income and lifestyle? First, are you saving
enough money? Second, are you prepared to live on
50% of your present income? Is your spouse ready?
Is this the lifestyle you both really want? If not,
what are you jointly going to do about it?
Are you really, truly ready to take the steps
necessary to see to it that you and your spouse are
not dependent on Social Security when you retire?
You had better invest well -- time and money. You
need steady, substantial, automatic raises. You
need a high rate of return on your investments. You
need a high rate of thrift. Do you have all
three?
Does your spouse understand this problem? Have
you both looked at your economic future, as
described by the financial calculator?
If you both agree that your present retirement
fund is too small, or that its rate of return is
too low, or that your employer will not fund more
of it, or that you don't have enough time remaining
for annual earnings to compound, then you must
create a major new income stream for your family.
Most Americans refuse to face this. Will you?
http://shurl.org/goldenyears
Most couples have not done this exercise and
refuse to do it. They do not see the looming
threat: insufficient
funds.
There is nothing like a little unpleasant
reality to motivate people to make changes while
there is still time. This is why most people prefer
not to think about unpleasant aspects of reality
very often. They don't want to make major changes
in their lives.
Conclusion
I am going to give you enough time to complete
this exercise. In my next report, I will go into
more detail about how to decide what to give to
children now and what to keep for yourself.
You will find, I suspect, that you are so far
behind the curve in terms of your savings program
that you can't afford to give them a dime.
If this turns out to be the case, then you will
have to figure out a way to increase your
income.
Most people will do anything -- especially
nothing -- to keep from facing reality. They do not
want to accept any added responsibility for their
lives. They expect Uncle Sugar to protect them from
themselves.
They are going to wind up with a Dutch-treat
retirement.
I hope this is not you. But if you refuse to go
through this exercise, you have identified yourself
as one of the sheep being fattened for the shearing
-- or worse.
The correct response to this threat is not
"Baaa, humbug."
Dr.
Gary North earned a Ph.D. in history and is one of
America's keenest economic analysts and
commentators. He supports the Austrian school of
economics and is a previous assistant to
libertarian congressman Dr. Ron Paul. Visit his
website at http://garynorth.com.
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