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Helping
Your Adult Children, Part I
by Gary North, Ph.D.
Quid
Pro Quo
If you have gone through the short, fast, and
utterly humbling exercise of estimating your
retirement income, you know for sure what you
probably suspected before: you have not saved
enough money. You saw the evidence on-screen.
http://shurl.org/retirecalc
A financial calculator drives home this point
psychologically because it is so objective. The
numbers don't lie. They don't even care.
But most people will not go through this
exercise. "I don't want to know!" Why not? "Because
this knowledge would make me more responsible."
People don't want additional responsibility, even
though it cannot be evaded. "It can be
postponed!"
To procrastinators, I say:
Perhaps you will someday find comfort in that
familiar slogan, "Misery loves company."
There are at least 120 million out of 150
million salaried Americans who have rented inner
tubes and are now cheerfully drifting toward the
same retirement waterfall. They have their iPods
playing at 95 decibels, so they don't hear the
ever-increasing sound of cascading dreams. They
also did not notice the fine-print sign on the
shoreline:
- Your Social Security benefits are the
foundation on which you can build a secure
retirement. Most financial advisors say you'll
need about 70 percent of your pre-retirement
earnings to comfortably maintain your
pre-retirement standard of living. Under current
law, if you have average earnings, your Social
Security retirement benefits will replace only
about 40 percent. The percentage is lower for
people in the upper income brackets and higher
for people with low incomes. You'll need to
supplement your benefits with a pension, savings
or investments.
http://www.socialsecurity.gov/retire2
This sign did not announce:
Warning: The revenue generated by Social
Security FICA taxes will be less than the program's
annual outflow to retirees, beginning in 2017.
Proceed at your own risk.
You think I'm kidding? On Social Security's
website, we read the following:
- In 2017 Social Security benefit payments
will begin to exceed Social Security tax
income.
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- http://www.ssa.gov/pubs/10055-supplement.html
There is a link to a document, "The Future of
Social Security." I clicked the link. This message
appeared:
- File Not Found
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- http://www.ssa.gov/pubs/10055-old2.html#chart4
This message pretty well describes the
statistical future of Social Security. Tens of
millions of retirees will receive some monthly
version of this message: "File not found." Or, to
quote Maxwell Smart, "Missed it by THAT much. Sorry
about that." With respect to the statistical
reality of "Golden Years, Inc." the entire country
is under the cone of silence.
There is eventually going to be a tax revolt. I
wrote about this prospect in "Reality Check" three
years ago. The workers/voters are going to say, "No
more." Granny is going to get stiffed. If you find
this hard to believe, read my original article.
http://shurl.org/taxrevolt
You had better start preparing now for the
future budgetary effects of this tax revolt. It's
going to be a tax revolt against you.
No hard feelings. It's nothing personal.
"File not found."
Who Ya Gonna Call?
From Adam and Eve forward, it has been the same
story: aging parents have planned to become
economically dependent on their sons. But from Cain
and Abel forward, there was always a risk of
disrupted plans.
Then came tax-funded old age pensions. This was
the brainchild of Otto von Bismarck. He figured
that this program would undercut political support
for the opposition Social Democrats. He was right.
The idea spread.
This year marked the 70th anniversary of the
Social Security Act. The program remains widely
popular. It is funded by a no-deductions flat tax
that no politician challenges, not even the most
liberal Democrats. The Federal government needs the
"off-budget" money to conceal the real size of its
official budget deficit.
http://shurl.org/conjob
The Social Security system and its various
imitations around the world are all headed for
bankruptcy. The experts know this, but deny it in
public. Social Security is Cain. The American
worker is Abel. We have seen all this before. It
turns out badly.
This being the case, parents had better regard
any financial "aid to dependent adult children" as
an investment, the way that Democrats officially
refer to higher taxes. Such aid should strengthen
the solvency of the recipients.
Working Out An Arrangement In Advance
For example, parents should not give money to
their children to buy a home. Why not? Because a
home is a debt-burdened consumer good. Your money
should help your children become producers. These
days, nobody needs to help a typical American to
become a consumer. In the international division of
labor, America specializes in debt-funded
consumption. "You want more consumption? We're the
best in the world!"
On the other hand, parents might consider giving
the same amount of down payment money to their
children so that they can buy an investment rental
house, assuming that the children do not live in a
housing bubble city. But before signing the check,
the parents should read John Schaub's latest book,
"Building Wealth One House at a Time." Then they
should require their children to read it.
Only when the children hand over a written
long-term financial plan should any parent sign
checks for more than token amounts of money. When
there is agreement between parents and children
about this plan, parents can more safely write a
check.
You are responsible for anything you fund. Do
not fund anyone else's consumer spending. If you
are tempted to give away money with no strings
attached, the memory of the following photo may
bring you back to your senses:
http://shurl.org/nostrings
Note: an adult child's divorce will scramble any
family's long-term household financial plan . . .
including yours. There is a 50% chance that there
will be a divorce. Parents had better have a
fall-back plan to deal with this, especially if
they have more daughters than sons.
If I were a parent ready to fork over money to
my children, I would give it to a married daughter
to purchase real estate in her name. Or I would
create a real estate trust, administered by me on
her behalf. Or I would create a real estate trust
for the grandkids. Sons-in-law should make deals
with their parents.
Let us assume that parents are ready to provide
the down payment for an investment house. They
should retain at least one-quarter interest in the
ownership. The children should do the shopping and
renter-managing. The more work the parents do, the
higher their retained interest.
This is a joint venture. This is not giving away
money. One goal is the same as an outright gift:
helping a child financially. But there is an
additional goal: building capital for your
retirement.
Don't ignore goal #2.
Guilt-Driven Giving
Some grandparents set up trusts to help
grandchildren go to college. This is ridiculous. I
mean, it is money down the proverbial drain.
Any bright high school graduate can earn an
accredited college degree in three years for
$15,000 if he or she shops smart. (I have written a
manual on how to do this.) A teenager can easily
afford to attend college by working part time at
McDonald's. But there is a catch: he or she has to
live at home. Teenagers don't want to live at home.
They want boola-boola. To finance this, they expect
moolah-moolah. They usually get it.
Teenagers want a free ride. Who doesn't? You
cannot afford to give away your money for
unnecessary free rides. Make sure that the money
you give to your relatives is either for real
charity or for real productivity.
Don't let needless guilt motivate your budget.
You cannot afford to finance guilt. You will be
hard-pressed as it is to retire in comfort.
Every time you write a check to someone who
really doesn't need the money, you are weakening
the recipient and also weakening your financial
future. You are becoming increasingly dependent on
the tender mercies of the State. It, too, is going
broke. It, too, is funding projects based on
guilt-manipulation. It, too, is funding consumption
rather than production. But it has an excuse: the
consolidation of power. What's your excuse?
Conclusion
Work out an arrangement for any money given
above the usual Christmas gifts and birthdays.
There should be some quid in every quo. Each side
should understand the mutual benefits expected from
the other. Each side should agree to the terms in
advance.
One-way money creates dependence. This is a bad
idea except in cases where the dependence is
physical.
Dr.
Gary North earned a Ph.D. in history and is one of
America's keenest economic analysts and
commentators. He supports the Austrian school of
economics and is a previous assistant to
libertarian congressman Dr. Ron Paul. Visit his
website at http://garynorth.com.
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