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October 6, 2006
On a
Fragmented Humanity
by Donald Croft Brickner
1.
On the Descending Relative Worth of Struggling
Human Beings
Most folks these days whose lives appear fairly
stable are hard-pressed to empathize with the lives
of those whose worlds end up turned upside-down or
shattered, often abruptly.
Pick a tragic scenario for any neighbor or
community whose fortunes have plummeted into some
seemingly unscalable abyss. We have an abundance to
choose from lately in America, and across the
globe.
Empathy being the emotion that it is, feeling
someone else's pain requires having experienced
that pain, or something very close to it.
Yet about the only time I hear anyone state that
phrase -- "I feel your pain" -- it's almost
exclusively the words belonging to a comedian
impersonating Bill Clinton.
We've become so emotionally insulated culturally
of late that, unless we're following someone else's
good juicy tragedy on TV as an evening's gossipy
entertainment, we really don't want to know about
all of the commonplace horrors affecting our fellow
human beings all around us.
Well -- isn't that true? Take the homeless, as
but one obvious example -- as in, take them
someplace else. Please.
So what's going on here? Do real people in
harm's way just no longer matter to us as a (once
caring) nation? Oh, sure -- we'll throw money at
large numbers of neighbors in a crisis, but do most
of us step forward to do the dirty work needed any
longer, one human being on behalf of another?
One hesitates to make blanket statements here,
but, actually -- the answer is no. We don't. And I
can tell you the year our humanity got sideswiped,
was pulled away from us, and we just let it go.
It was the summer of 1987, and there was a
severe drought in America's Southeast --
particularly in the cattle-raising region
surrounding Anderson, South Carolina. I know, I was
there. Anderson was pretty much ground zero.
I reported on that drought, and on the cattle
ranchers who suffered the loss of their homes and
careers. That drought, which lasted more than a
year, cost the farmers their hay, and the lost hay
cost the cattle ranchers their starving cattle.
The moment the story broke, countless Americans
from all over the place immediately responded --
most of them farmers (if one drives from coast to
coast, one realizes America is nothing but one
gigantic farm). One man in Illinois filled his
18-wheeler with his own harvest and headed
southeast. A man in Anderson, California filled an
entire freight train headed east with hay, while an
Alice, Texas farmer did the very same thing. Man
alive -- it was all just incredible to behold.
There were no financial donations made as yet.
Just the desperately needed hay.
The major media didn't pick up most of those
stories and many others like them, however. They
instead focused on the politicians who stepped
forward with really big toys, like Air Force
transports and large military convoys. Admittedly,
that assistance was needed.
But when the politicians took over the media
microphones, all that incredible, heart-warming
help by everyday Americans was stopped in its
tracks by, what -- practicality -- and one of
America's greatest potential modern day folk
stories was subverted and superceded. And then it
quietly (and quickly) went away.
That's the first time I noticed a certain
jadedness set in firmly in the American mindset.
Prior to that time, rushing to the aid of a
neighbor was a given -- a person simply did that,
without hesitation, because it was the right thing
to do.
But now, what have we got? A downward evolution
of the humans-need-humans principal -- one that's
devolved so thoroughly we've built all kinds of
justifications to no longer get intimately involved
in anything that smacks of human struggle.
In place of what was once spontaneously
concerned wherewithal and action, we now find
ourselves commonly left with little more than jaded
dismissals -- as in,
those-struggling-people-likely-screwed-up-and-are-probably-just-getting-what-they-deserve.
Is it any wonder our selfish culture is now
widely loathed, say, all across Europe?
No. Human beings are all but expendable in the
U.S. now. They -- which is to say, we -- may have
finally become irrelevant.
* * * * *
2.
On the Deadly Sin of Pride: the "Us versus Them"
Mentality
Call it "ideological insulation" -- this nasty
sociological business of hanging out exclusively
with our kind, and pointing critical fingers at
others outside of our insulated and commonly highly
prejudiced groups.
One can also call such an unbecoming behavior
"be true to your school," for it's no more
substantive than that.
Or, you can just go ahead and label it "pride"
-- as in, one of the Seven Deadly Sins' pride.
I can't even watch cable news programs any
longer for all of the editorializing that takes
place during their broadcasts -- most of it
marketed to pre-determined viewing audiences that
seek to hear the pre-packaged criticisms so
thoughtlessly and callously given voice now on
national TV.
Here's what I now know for sure, thanks to
having had a lot of direct contact late last year
with a stunningly large number of my neighbors: the
views expressed by TV's far political right, in
particular (although the far left, or far-anything,
is no less biased), are often severely stilted and
unduly self-righteous.
Living a happy and prosperous life isn't about
"us versus them" -- and it never was.
Countless ideologues, particularly those within
static world view belief systems, suffer from the
"sin" of pride -- which is about embracing a false
superiority simply because one views him- or
herself as a member of a uniform group of
believers.
Pride for the individual is called self-esteem.
Pride for being a mere member of a group,
particularly one that has a political agenda, we'll
label a Deadly Sin.
In recent decades there's been a push to
separate "pride" (which is good) from "hubris"
(which is bad), a severe form of pride that
gravitates toward selfish self-aggrandizement. The
deadly sin of pride is thus a semantics problem:
pride in one's self or in one's group is a good
thing -- forget the terminology -- while hubris is
of a class of behavioral dysfunction that
gravitates toward ugly self-promotion.
While I'm no more of a fan of dysfunctional
behavior than the next guy, I don't accept this
distinction surrounding the word, "pride."
Ironically, it is people's pride that tends to
leave them in denial about their own pride (!) --
particularly when in a group setting where a
critical discussion about group pride rarely even
surfaces (!!).
A quick aside here: throughout the centuries,
psychological health rarely raised its head when
philosophy was being (yes, too-often "pridefully")
practiced.
To date, the rules of "doing" philosophy have
ignored sound psychological health in favor of
what's become a deluded well-oiled intellect
(thanks in large part to far too many existential
givens). The truth is, our emotions call the shots
in our lives, not our brains -- a failure of
recognition that is probably the greatest single
failing in classical philosophy.
Even our empirically-friendly behavioral
psychology, taught almost exclusively at most
Western universities, has yet no applicable working
definition for "emotion." Chalk that up to
existentialist-colored positivism -- which heavily
supports "logic," even when it literally fails to
use it. When's the last time any professional took
the time to write down a series of "if" facts in
order to determine a "then" conclusion?
So much for "reason," then -- which is the
purported end result of practicing logic.
In any event, my week-long experience with
everyday human beings -- in this instance, while
seeking signatures for a grassroots property tax
petition while seated in a store front -- surprised
me (and pleased me) on several unexpected
levels.
My work environment and contacts were strongly
conservative in nature, but in chatting with
countless passers-by, I was taken by an absence of
"parrot talk."
By "parrot talk," I mean the kind of predictable
pro-this, anti-that chatter that fills the airwaves
on our cable news programs. It's not real hard to
tell the so-called conservatives from the so-called
liberals in those settings, who are clearly at
war.
But in the real world, I was amazed to discover
that, with only rare exception, the only way I
could tell a Republican from a Democrat was by
guessing badly.
In actual practice, those who stopped to chat or
sign the petition I was promoting were just
everyday people -- just like the kind I grew up
with (and loved) as a kid.
And, God, how I had missed them, all of these
years
We were separated by our mutually
practiced Deadly Sin of pride -- all that "Us v.
Them" bilge.
So, let's posit: enough already. Forget about
the endless artificial distinctions.
People are just people.
How could such a gigantic number of us have
forgotten that?
Brickner
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Donald
Croft Brickner has lived in roughly half of the
states in America, working countless jobs in a
variety of occupations. Prior to serving as an
enlisted journalist in the U.S. Navy during the
Vietnam era, he majored in music theory in college
and later received an associate's degree in music
education.
After
his military tour, for which he received an
honorable discharge, he pursued his lifelong
interest in the study of metaphysics/ontology, and
finally received his bachelor's degree in
philosophy from the University of Maine-Orono in
1992.
He
later attended graduate studies at the Earlham
School of Religion in Richmond, Indiana and in the
M.F.A. creative writing program at Chapman
University in Orange, California. He has written an
unproduced 3-act play, "Revelations at Mount
Rushmore," which remains on file at the Laguna
Playhouse in Laguna Beach, California. He is also
more than halfway through completing his first
novel.
Visit
his MySpace page at http://www.myspace.com/donaldcroftbrickner
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